Sept10th2010

Subject:
10 Reasons to Lease Rather Than Own
Your Next Partner

To buy or lease? It’s a choice you make
with cars and homes, but what if you
approached your relationships the same
way?

No, we’re not referring to the oldest
profession in the world (though the
concept could apply to matrimonial
prostitution--a fairly common accord
in the U.S.) and before you jump to
conclusions and see this suggestion as
cold-hearted, let us explain how it could
transform your love life and help you to
avoid future suffering.

After over 25 years of empirical research
involving relationships, spirituality,
personality and compatibility assessment,
including observing thousands of love
relationships as a matchmaker and writing
a book about soul mates, we’ve come to
the conclusion that the current model of
dating and relationships isn’t working too
well and that a new approach is
desperately needed.

How much pain have you and people you
know endured due to love relationships?
Traditional marriage and relationships can
be wonderful, but unfortunately there are too
many associated traps that cause problems
for even the most intelligent people.

In traditional relationships, couples tend
to believe that they own each other. “I’m
yours.” “You’re mine.” While placing a claim
on someone seems to be, oddly, universally
accepted, it’s too often about control and
leads to heartache.

Indefinitely leasing, on the other hand,
doesn’t mean you love or respect
someone less, but more, because at the
core of this mind-set is unconditional love,
the highest form of love, and a lack of
possessiveness and other fears.

You don’t have to suffer anymore. Simply
altering your perception of your love life
can lead to less stress and more
enjoyment. The following 10 reasons
outline why indefinitely leasing instead of
buying or attempting to own a partner can
be a better option and are based on
our long-term findings.

1) “Together forever,” is a fairytale in most
cases. Select couples might be capable
of “growing old” together (and being
authentically happy--both of them) and are
destined to do so, but for many others, it’s
just not meant to be (especially when the
relationship begins early in life). Resisting
this will only cause more heartache and
stress.

All relationships have destined durations.
If a life-long, mutually compatible and
loving relationship is meant to be, it will
be.

*Dishonesty Yields Negative Karma*

By the way, it’s important to remember
that by accepting that most relationships
are not meant to be life-long doesn’t
give anyone a license to cheat or fail
to make the most of their relationship.
Dishonesty always incurs a karmic price.
However, being attracted to or falling in
love with someone else doesn’t. And
since you don’t have to sleep with
someone to fall in love with them,
keeping a tight leash on your partner
will not prevent what is meant to be.

2) Everyone has many soul mates.
You miss opportunities for spiritual
growth by staying locked into a
relationship that has already ended.

3) You will meet who you are supposed
to meet, when you’re supposed to meet
them, at various times in your life--and
everyone has a different schedule.

4) Buying cannot lock in and enhance
the security, stability, or happiness of a
relationship. Rely on yourself instead and
see sharing your time and, or life with
someone else as a bonus.

5) Buying doesn’t guarantee you won’t
grow old alone. If you’re afraid of being
alone, cultivate good friendships. Also
realize there are benefits and opportunities
to being single.

6) Buying doesn’t assure security and
happiness for children. In fact, it can be
harmful for a child when a couple tries to
conform, unsuccessfully, to a traditional
relationship. A child contract, on the other
hand, puts the child first and protects the
main caretaker of the child.

7) You don’t know who the love of your
life is until the last day of your life. Each
bond is for different purposes.

8) No one can be your “everything” for a
lifetime. It’s unfair and unrealistic to expect
one person to meet all your needs the rest
of your life.

9) Personal fate and karma (both “good”
and “bad”) exist, especially in regards to
love. It’s impossible to completely control
your love life or someone else.

10) “True love” is more often, but not
always projection, illusion, and, or a state
of mind rather than an actual
extraordinary bond between couples.

We’re all for enjoying the perks of
romance, but just remember to be realistic
too.

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